The Real Self lies inside us !!!

So here i am...again wid my posts. Thanx 2 Miss. Swati Sharma dat she indirectly instigated me to start writing again into my blog. Its actually a kool way to express urself.

The topic I have chosen is How to Know the Real Self..... n it can be answered in just 2 words - Search Inside. Your are the best judge of yourself and all the questions related to your life are hidden inside. It clearly means that its always best to look to your heart and know what you should do. Even science sometimes agrees to the power of intuition. And this is nothing but The Voice of your Heart..........blaaaaaaaah !!!!

ENOUGH !!!

Its all bullshit. Intuition.......!!!! The stuffs which I wrote above are good enough for lectures delivered in the Art of Living classes. People learn them in their classes and as soon as they keep their foot outside the Art of Living Classes....they come to their normal self. But since they have told their friends that they have joined such classes ( which is nowadays a fashion among the metro ppl ), they gotta prove others that they are changing. But when the application of those things come.....they are far from it. And I am dead sure Sri Sri Ravishankar will also agree to this. THE REAL SELF....ha ha !!! It comes out when you are in a show like Bigg Boss (if we assume it to be true and not fabrigated). Its not inside or anywhere. Its with you only and you know that.

I have often seen people showing different faces in different places. But he himself knows that which face is more identical to his real face. People might know Johney Lever as a comedian, but how emotional he is in Real Life is known to his closed ones only. And the best to him. So this means everyone is not aware of his true self. Its known to him. But sometimes people tend to ignore few facts, generally which are negative. Thats where these Art of Living Classes come to the rescue. They teach people what is already known to them.

I understand the readers of this article will find it vague and will disagree with me at most of the points. But then ...WHO CARES !!! I had to write what I find to be true. The best one can do to answer all his unanswered SELF questions is to ask the almighty....THE GOD !!! He's d best to guide. But don't blindly faith him. Coz Mr. GOD has other things to do as well. So he might be busy. Hence, make yourself powerful enough that God even in his busy schedule can take out time for you. And Mr. Hanuman and I have come in terms with it.

Neways....felt nice 2 write dis blog aftr almost 1/2 an year. Hope i continue doing this for long. Bye

6th phase of my life......

$r!......


6th phase of mah lyf.....rite !!! There is 2 mch to talk abt.....it has been like a roller coaster ride 4 me.....UPS n DOWNS !!!! i guess dis ws d phase which taught me d RULES OF LIFE !!! n it compelled me to change myself .....for the gud or for d bad I dunno!!! But it ws all enjoyabale. Rite frm d start of it.....I experienced few of mah bestest tyms here.

I have been in delhi for over 3 yrs.....bt d last yr was all which made me knw d REAL ME...... dere wr betrayals,clashes,fights as well as friendship,love,funny moments. In short....dere ws everything. I usually nvr thot of taking revenges......bt dis phase hs specially ASKED me 2 take REVENGE frm few ppl.

There r tyms whn ppl force u 2 change as per d norms of d world......n dats wat happened 2 me. Bt apart frm few stuffs.....d basic $r! is still d same. But he's misunderstood 2 d great extent. Infact completely most of d tyms. 1 of mah article in d blog hd sum contents abt d sacrifice. It actually pertains 2 dis particular phase.

So dis phase has lot of stuffs inside it.....it definitely will take many pages 2 get completed. As said earlier.....it ws a roller coaster ride. But then,$r! needs 2 show his true MARDANGI....as in... dat same old self respect stuff. Because he has already seen.....dat MOST ppl r either selfish or dey dun wanna do wat u actually want from dem. Actually dey dun really respect ur inner self. Dey dun value ur sacrifices.....n dey dun value wat u hv done 4 dem in d past.

So dis is juz d preface of mah 6th phase..... D chapters will start soon !!!!

So bbye tc cya.....

1st phase of lyf.....

Long tym ago....i wrote a sher fr me...

तन्हाइयो से भरी है ये आज की रात,

खुदा ने भी जताई है ये बात

क्या पता अब क्या होना है

मेंरा मुक़द्दर तो है बस अब मेरे हाथ !!!!

I was born in a small place called Korba, Madhya Pradesh.....vich later chngd 2 Chhattisgarh in d yr 2000. I stayed behind d old bus stand in d bank colony(Korba ppl wud knw).... I remember the great tyms i hd there....I remember dose tyms faintly....bt i ws d juniormost dere.....mah frnds were cheeky,montu,chintu,gudiya,monu,golu etc. Wat an awesum tym it ws!!! I still remember dat RAVAN DAHAN prog which ws famous dere. Papa (Baba) ws in State Bank and it ws at d walkin distance frm dere. Pompi Didi n I used 2 go in rickshaw wid minky,ankit n ankita to beacon school SECL.

I still cherish dose moments. toshi Didi n Poorva didi k saath 1 game bhi khelta tha....vich i dun rem nw. N i rem aftr d skul,we used 2 go 2 dadu's(nana ji) home almost evryday.Dere i 1st saw Jo Jeeta Wahi Sikander movie. THE MOST FUNNIEST INCIDENT I rem is dat in dat toy cycle,i went over 2-3 kilometres in d busy road near d railway crossing,n babla dada k frnd n mujhe utha k laaya. Us din jo baba ne jo waat lagayi thi na.....i still rem !!!

Den tauji (jethu) ka home ws also nearby. Manu didi got married tabhi hi. I loved 2 go dere. I still remember babla dada used 2 mk me play video game. It ws of samurai company....Mario,Tetris....hum raat raat bhar khelte the. N d shop of tauji wid so many business....Trading,Sports,Restaurent etc. N all in d name of mah papa.....PRADEEP TRADERS !!! I felt so proud dat a flourishing business of our home is in d name of mah dad.

Den we shifted near d Niharika area's bank colony. Waha pe kanche khelta tha neelu,bantu bhaiya k saath. Even i played gulli danda dere. Didi ki frnd n Khan uncle's daughter rizwana used 2 cum 2 play wid her....n mind u...she ws DAMN BEAUTIFUL!!!! At dat tym i watched a lot of movies in hall n VCP.....rite frm Roza,Tiranga,Sadak,Anjaam to Kabhi Haan Kabhi naa,Khiladi,Khalnayak etc etc. N yeah....maashi got married tabhi ....obviously 2 mausa ji...hehe!!! bt mausaji ws/is really mast.....isliye its wrth mentioning....

So dis ws all abt mah 1st phase.....dis ws actually mah bachpan. Wo mama ka darana jab zee horror show aata tha....n mujhe kabristan k paas k railway track k waha chhod dena....n PEELI BAI ki kahani sunana jo train se kat ke marr gayi thi....everythn ws kool !!! Actually Modern Lyfstyle didnt hit me by dat tym.....it ws a simple lyf wid simple ppl.... truly gr8 !! D award fr 99.9% vich i scored in KG-II ws memorable. Walter Sir awarded me dat. N also....our bunglow got constructed tab....bt UNLUCKY we....baba got transferred 2 Ambikapur....n we hd 2 leave.....n dats whr...mah 1st phase ended.......

Is d BHARATIYATA in us losing ?

India is the land with different cultures blended into one, but the thread of unity is still there, which holds us tight. But in dis so called modern world,are we Indians ....TRUE INDIANS ??? Lets find out....

I'll narrate my own experiences which i have in mah lyf. In this blog,in each part i'll present few points which will make u think.

PART - I

I travel thru bus daily. I have observed that the women passengers face so many problems while travellling,still we male passengers give a damn to it. They keep on sitting on d ladies reserved seats. As far I m concerned,i nvr sit on dere reserved seats even if d bus is whole empty. I even offer seats to the ladies and elderly ppl standing. My frnds (esp vibhash) says that," Ye to bula bula k seat deta hai". Y shudnt I ? I still have dat INDIANISM in me......I knw 2 give,nt always take.But u knw wat, i really get furious whn i c d passengers who keep on sitting even aftr seeing that a more deserving candidate for that seat is standing there. Is this correct ? i guess No.

We Indians believe in sacrifices since d ancient age,bt even dose saints n we ppl hv hardly followed it. Y its always getting d comfort 1st....y cnt v share? If ppl in d buses and trains decide that for half of d journey he wud sit,n for next half his co-passenger,then d probs of dis overcrowding will solve for sure. Dis point is a very simple one.

But then,there is an othr problem which i have faced n seen. If suppose i offer seat 2 a lady who is wid her husband/relative or frnd. She wont say thank you! But then,d prob is nt dat. When d seat nearby her will get vacant,she wont offer it 2 u. It wud b offered 2 her relative or d 1 who is wid her. At that moment,I used to think...."Kitne kamine ho sakte hain log". Actually,sacrifices have no value in 2day's life. Whthr it be love or friendship,no whr 2day,sacrifices r considered important. Every1 wants that THEY SHUD B ON D COMFORT ZONE,n dats it! Show off is already a part of our lives. Thank God.....m nt d 1 of this kind. I m proud 2 b wat I am. Mah origin in a small state called Chhattisgarh has kept me firmly grounded and has kept me as an INDIAN till date.....

This is the end of Part - 1. Part -2 will be wid u soon....till den...BBYE TC CYA !!!!

Phases of mah lyf......

$r!.....

My life can be divided under 6 phases..
1) From birth to Class 1
2) Class 1 - Class 4
3)Class 5- Class 10
4)Class11-Class 12
5)Delhi's 1st yr - 2nd yr
6)Delhi's 3rd yr - till date


I have divided them in phases because each phase has taught me different things which has helped me make what I am 2day. Its a mixture of good n bad,whereby i have learnt what actually LIFE is all abt. Infact,I must say....dat i have seen and lived lyf much more den ne1 of mah age hs seen or lived. Each Post of mine wud b dedicated to either one of the phase among these 6.

$r!....

So finally, I have started blogging as well....juz lik d great ppl. But actually....its a way of portraying mah thots over Internet,which i cudnt do over mah diary n all. So mah blogging finally starts 2day !!!!!!